"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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quick phone question, hopefully quick answer?

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met a cool chick yesterday (saturday) at an outdoors thing, got the number

when should i call to set up a date? normally i'd call sunday afternoon but the day after seems a bit too quick, and i know i'll be busy for the next weekend, so will only be able to get together the weekend after that....

when should i call, and should i call or email in between the two weeks?
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Don't wait too long to call. If she's into you, it won't matter if you call her Sunday. Also, you're a bit intimadated to call so subconsioucsly (sp?) you want to postpone calling her. Sunday or Monday at the LATEST.

A few texts between the two weeks of you guys kicking it can only serve to keep you on her mind. A good thing.
 
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call her when you're in the best phone mind frame. warm up talking to some mates who are full of energy and you really click with then call your girls for the week. I think your energy and so on are more important than any timing. just another quick note - I wouldn't call the next day though unless I slept with the girl in which case I do and they almost always say I thought you would never call. when i hear this i know its game over...for them. good luck
 
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