"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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quick phone question, hopefully quick answer?

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met a cool chick yesterday (saturday) at an outdoors thing, got the number

when should i call to set up a date? normally i'd call sunday afternoon but the day after seems a bit too quick, and i know i'll be busy for the next weekend, so will only be able to get together the weekend after that....

when should i call, and should i call or email in between the two weeks?
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don't wait too long to call. If she's into you, it won't matter if you call her Sunday. Also, you're a bit intimadated to call so subconsioucsly (sp?) you want to postpone calling her. Sunday or Monday at the LATEST.

A few texts between the two weeks of you guys kicking it can only serve to keep you on her mind. A good thing.
 
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call her when you're in the best phone mind frame. warm up talking to some mates who are full of energy and you really click with then call your girls for the week. I think your energy and so on are more important than any timing. just another quick note - I wouldn't call the next day though unless I slept with the girl in which case I do and they almost always say I thought you would never call. when i hear this i know its game over...for them. good luck
 
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