"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Quick I have 3 girls over at my house and I don't know what to do!

silenthill

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My cousin and her 2 friends came over last night and their staying for 4 days. Between yesterday and today I bet they are bored out of their mind. I'm usually the guy that never goes out and does stuff so I don't really know how to keep them entertained.

Right now they are at the mall, but can you guys think of something that would be cool and fun. Like what to do or say or something. Or hell even some game we could play. We went for the beach today and it was pretty bad. They pretty much just talked between themselves while I was out swimming. And then when I was driving back we were just listening to music in silence.

Last night they asked me to invite some friends over but my friends arn't really the outgoing type either so I didn't even bother. I need help bad! They drove 500 miles to get here and I don't want their trip to suck. We are going to chicago on wensday. I also don't know how to act. To try and make jokes all the time or be more serious.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yuriy777

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Woah!!! Relax!
Take it easy. The answers will come.





...But not from me, I have to hit the range.
-Ciao- :wave:
 

Radiance

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What are you asking for? DJ advice, or how to entertain your guests?

Looks like you already ****ed up your chances with these girls, so I honestly wouldn't try sarging them. Next time try to be more out going. You can't be shy about this, just go for it, show some balls. Girls like that.

I would just have fun and enjoy the company, don't worry about these chicks.

There's plenty more.
 

Driven2Succeed

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ya dude, totally just relax.. pump ur brakes..

just go out and have fun.. theres always sh1t to do.. if worst comes to worst go bowling.. bowling is always fun and most girls suck so its a good chance to neg hit and just have fun.. drink a few, maybe catch a movie..

girls are just normal people man, they are just like u and me minus the c0ck.. if theres chemistry than great..if not, u never see them again after this week..right?

dont stress so much.. just chill and get to know them.. who knows
 

Rocko

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Do you have a car?!?!? If you do, just DRIVE. Drive to the beach if you live near 1, go to the movies, to anywhere interesting that makes your city unique. Drive them to get food at a restaurant, grab your balls and think man.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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silenthill

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Yes I do have a car, we went to the beach and I frickin crashed and burned. I'll try to be more lively but its hard.
 

T Money

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wow bro.

you sound like me back in the day.

don't trip about these ho's, you're obviously in negative-point-land with them so it doesn't matter what you do now. Dont' sweat trying to shag these girls because it won't happen.

Picture them all taking a massive diarreah sh!t and wiping it up, and accidentally getting some on their hand, that should take them off the pedastal you've put them on.

Whoever said "grab your balls and think" that's what you gotta do.

Don't play a game, go to a club. Sh!t you actually might be able to redeem yourself if you go out and sarge at a club with them. Girls love these situations because they're competetive with other girls they don't know.

good luck
 
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