"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Quick & Easy Date Ideas

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It seems that there are always a thread or two in the first few pages of DJ Discussion asking for "places to go on a date with a girl". This question has been answered by dozens (if not hundreds) of people, but there is one simple thing that nobody has brought up yet...

Go to the airport.

No, I don't mean bring your date to the airport, I mean you physically get into a car and drive to your local airport. Virtually every airport has a huge wall filled with cubbyholes that hold fliers for almost every activity or point of interest anywhere in the state. Last night I picked up a friend who flew in from overseas and came across such a board... on it were pamphlets with titles such as: "Louisiana Mud Painting", "Bayou Airboat Tours", "Insta-Gator Alligator Ranch & Hatchery", et cetera. These are things I never would have known existed without seeing their brochures. The point of this thread is to illustrate the fact that you have dozens of personalized date ideas right there for the taking. Some suck, some don't... but one thing is guaranteed: these handouts are a lot more specific for your geographic location than any article or thread could ever be. So, what are you waiting for?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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GREAT idea! Might also work with rest areas off interstates, although those are usually just a lot of hotel coupons.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hey nice one :)

also, hotels tend to have brochures and flyers of local events/attractions.
 
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diablo said:
From what I can tell, usually by the exit, near the baggage carousel, or by the rental car stands.
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cool i'm going to check this out..

another good place, if it's the season is a baseball game.. that's right take your lady to the nearest stadium and see a baseball game.. tickets are cheap, and they love seeing those guys running around in those tight pants.

Plus you get a few hours one on one with the girl.. works every time!
 
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