"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Stark

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ok so this chick im friends with texted me yesterday that she wanted to hang out today. i said yes. so now school has passed do i wait for her to call or do i call?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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j0n024

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She was the one that contacted YOU, she was the one that initiated the "Date" so I think you should wait for her. I mean she might get an ego boost if you call her and then think your weak, but then again it is up to you good luck.
 

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Yea dude wait.. You can always call her later, like next week.. But if you call her, and she might say I'm busy today, and you might reply, oh ok, and it's over you're douche..


You are winning even if she doesn't call you today, or tomorrow.. Eventually she will call you, and that's how you pass her little sh1t test if it is what it is.. Otherwise you can call her later.

You're not loosing her nor anything by sitting back, relaxing, and chilling..
 

War Against Betaism

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You made a mistake by not establishing the conditions. You should have told her "Call me."
 

ready123

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just call her dude

don't complicate things by jumping through hoops to preserrve miniscule amounts of value that mean absolutely nothing

she said she wanted to hang out, you call her. you guys are friends anyway
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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amoka

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This mistake was a failure to establish a time of meet at the initial contact. Definately DO NOT CALL HER. Perhaps she is getting prepare or doing something else at the moment. Let her call you when she is ready. In fact, don't pickup when she calls. Let her leave a message or call her back like 2mins later and tell her you were doing "last minute CLEANING" or something.
 

ready123

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some of you guys read into this sht way too much

she asked him to hang out, why does he gotta act like he's cleaning. is he gonna really gain a ton more power by acting like he got better sht to do? no

who the fvck cares... just call
 
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I would have called her right when I got the text message and set up the plans.
 
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