"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ok so this chick im friends with texted me yesterday that she wanted to hang out today. i said yes. so now school has passed do i wait for her to call or do i call?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She was the one that contacted YOU, she was the one that initiated the "Date" so I think you should wait for her. I mean she might get an ego boost if you call her and then think your weak, but then again it is up to you good luck.
 
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Yea dude wait.. You can always call her later, like next week.. But if you call her, and she might say I'm busy today, and you might reply, oh ok, and it's over you're douche..


You are winning even if she doesn't call you today, or tomorrow.. Eventually she will call you, and that's how you pass her little sh1t test if it is what it is.. Otherwise you can call her later.

You're not loosing her nor anything by sitting back, relaxing, and chilling..
 
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War Against Betaism

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You made a mistake by not establishing the conditions. You should have told her "Call me."
 
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just call her dude

don't complicate things by jumping through hoops to preserrve miniscule amounts of value that mean absolutely nothing

she said she wanted to hang out, you call her. you guys are friends anyway
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This mistake was a failure to establish a time of meet at the initial contact. Definately DO NOT CALL HER. Perhaps she is getting prepare or doing something else at the moment. Let her call you when she is ready. In fact, don't pickup when she calls. Let her leave a message or call her back like 2mins later and tell her you were doing "last minute CLEANING" or something.
 
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some of you guys read into this sht way too much

she asked him to hang out, why does he gotta act like he's cleaning. is he gonna really gain a ton more power by acting like he got better sht to do? no

who the fvck cares... just call
 
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I would have called her right when I got the text message and set up the plans.
 
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