"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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tennisbuck12

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Been on a date with this chick twice. I've found myself falling back into my needy ways again. At least i'm aware of it. We are still texting, but the frequency has gone. Which actually is fine with me, I dislike texting, but do want to sleep with this chick. She's already been back to my place on the first date and we messed around. When leaving the second date she asked if i was going to come in for a bit. I said sure. When we got back to her place she changed her mind and said it was getting late. Struck me as weird. Anyhoo she's been sick lately with migranes and just texted me this.

Ive been getting migranes my whole life and they are horrible and its make work awful the last two days.


I haven't responded and unsure that i will. What would you guys do and what would you say.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lizardking82

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What you think of yourself, will become. You are unsure and you subconsciously think you don't deserve this girl and you are kinda self sabotaging in some kind of way. Until you fix your mentality, even the most ****ed up chicks will flake you. Would you be thinking about her if you had dates with 3-4 other women? ;)
 

tennisbuck12

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Lol. I do have multiple women. I just like this one for some reason. Well, at least at this point. I did notice some fat, I didn't care for and she's an only child. Also she has a mean pit.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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