"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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tennisbuck12

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Been on a date with this chick twice. I've found myself falling back into my needy ways again. At least i'm aware of it. We are still texting, but the frequency has gone. Which actually is fine with me, I dislike texting, but do want to sleep with this chick. She's already been back to my place on the first date and we messed around. When leaving the second date she asked if i was going to come in for a bit. I said sure. When we got back to her place she changed her mind and said it was getting late. Struck me as weird. Anyhoo she's been sick lately with migranes and just texted me this.

Ive been getting migranes my whole life and they are horrible and its make work awful the last two days.


I haven't responded and unsure that i will. What would you guys do and what would you say.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What you think of yourself, will become. You are unsure and you subconsciously think you don't deserve this girl and you are kinda self sabotaging in some kind of way. Until you fix your mentality, even the most ****ed up chicks will flake you. Would you be thinking about her if you had dates with 3-4 other women? ;)
 
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Lol. I do have multiple women. I just like this one for some reason. Well, at least at this point. I did notice some fat, I didn't care for and she's an only child. Also she has a mean pit.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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