Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Drones200

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I'm interested in this girl *21* a year older then me. I think shes great, easy to talk to, extremely geeky which appeals to the geeky side of me, which I never show off to most girls and I truly feel like I can geek out like if I were in middle school all over again and not turn her off.

Anyway I actually spent time with her alone with her over her house just "hanging out". Now for the life of me I have no Idea why I haven't made a move, I keep thinking not yet, is not the right time. Wanted to shoot myself when I left her house last week at 4am without making a move *kissing her etc.* But one of the real reasons I didn't make a move was because my ex had contacted me the night before with hopes of getting back together. She was on my mind that whole night and I couldn't really concentrate.

However I come to my senses and really want nothing to do with my ex.

The thing is she never sends me text, I always have to text her, I have to call her, I have to do everything. It turns me off that the girl is not trying to also get me. I often feel well this girl is not interested she doesn't call or sees what I'm up to w.e.

I have two **** buddies in the side but I'm sick of the single life, I actually just want to get back into a meaningful relationship and I don't know why *besides the geek part* I find myself so attracted to her. Is it because she doesn't show interest?

We are going to the movies this weekend. First time we actually go anywhere just the 2 of us, so I just need some advice as to how to approach this. We haven't spoken at all since we set it up *yesterday*. I didn't beg for this date or anything, I just asked if she would like to go see a movie sat night and she said yes of course.
I wouldn't be surprised if she didn't contact me till then.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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She's cool as a cucumber and I like it! Much prefer that to girls who chase nag on your case all the time (which they all eventually turns to in the end so you might just treasure the 'quiet time' now) but each to their own ehh.

If I were you I'll make a move Saturday night. Then NC! I bet she'll be all over you then
 

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Sounds like this geeky b1tch has you wrapped around her finger. Never texts you??? sounds typical if you ask me. I bet you've moved into "just a friend" territory.

Now, on the topic of these f'uck buddies, how hot are they? 6?7? or an 8 perhaps? I need more info to assess your situation. If your f'uck buddies are an 8 that means you're probably Orlando Bloom Hot, which means you still have a chance. But if they are only 5s then lets face it, you're not hot.
 

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Still_Skippin said:
Sounds like this geeky b1tch has you wrapped around her finger. Never texts you??? sounds typical if you ask me. I bet you've moved into "just a friend" territory.

Now, on the topic of these f'uck buddies, how hot are they? 6?7? or an 8 perhaps? I need more info to assess your situation. If your f'uck buddies are an 8 that means you're probably Orlando Bloom Hot, which means you still have a chance. But if they are only 5s then lets face it, you're not hot.
Too harsh, she has agreed to go out with him, so there's interest there. But like you said if the fvuk buddies are HB8 or above then just replicate the game he used on them to geeky gal. Then he should be able to regain control.

If they are under HB8 then he will need to play a new game.

By the way if I were you, and if you are planning to make a move Saturday night, then I'd probably try to avoid the cinema, unless you have some pre or post cinema game plan, preferably pre, as post cinema might not be shoe in.

In any case I think you should make a move soon.
 
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Too harsh, she has agreed to go out with him, so there's interest there. But like you said if the fvuk buddies are HB8 or above then just replicate the game he used on them to geeky gal. Then he should be able to regain control.

If they are under HB8 then he will need to play a new game.

^^^^^ THIS. just listen to this bro. he knwos u gotta be hot to pull this.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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