"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Drones200

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I'm interested in this girl *21* a year older then me. I think shes great, easy to talk to, extremely geeky which appeals to the geeky side of me, which I never show off to most girls and I truly feel like I can geek out like if I were in middle school all over again and not turn her off.

Anyway I actually spent time with her alone with her over her house just "hanging out". Now for the life of me I have no Idea why I haven't made a move, I keep thinking not yet, is not the right time. Wanted to shoot myself when I left her house last week at 4am without making a move *kissing her etc.* But one of the real reasons I didn't make a move was because my ex had contacted me the night before with hopes of getting back together. She was on my mind that whole night and I couldn't really concentrate.

However I come to my senses and really want nothing to do with my ex.

The thing is she never sends me text, I always have to text her, I have to call her, I have to do everything. It turns me off that the girl is not trying to also get me. I often feel well this girl is not interested she doesn't call or sees what I'm up to w.e.

I have two **** buddies in the side but I'm sick of the single life, I actually just want to get back into a meaningful relationship and I don't know why *besides the geek part* I find myself so attracted to her. Is it because she doesn't show interest?

We are going to the movies this weekend. First time we actually go anywhere just the 2 of us, so I just need some advice as to how to approach this. We haven't spoken at all since we set it up *yesterday*. I didn't beg for this date or anything, I just asked if she would like to go see a movie sat night and she said yes of course.
I wouldn't be surprised if she didn't contact me till then.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She's cool as a cucumber and I like it! Much prefer that to girls who chase nag on your case all the time (which they all eventually turns to in the end so you might just treasure the 'quiet time' now) but each to their own ehh.

If I were you I'll make a move Saturday night. Then NC! I bet she'll be all over you then
 

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Sounds like this geeky b1tch has you wrapped around her finger. Never texts you??? sounds typical if you ask me. I bet you've moved into "just a friend" territory.

Now, on the topic of these f'uck buddies, how hot are they? 6?7? or an 8 perhaps? I need more info to assess your situation. If your f'uck buddies are an 8 that means you're probably Orlando Bloom Hot, which means you still have a chance. But if they are only 5s then lets face it, you're not hot.
 

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Still_Skippin said:
Sounds like this geeky b1tch has you wrapped around her finger. Never texts you??? sounds typical if you ask me. I bet you've moved into "just a friend" territory.

Now, on the topic of these f'uck buddies, how hot are they? 6?7? or an 8 perhaps? I need more info to assess your situation. If your f'uck buddies are an 8 that means you're probably Orlando Bloom Hot, which means you still have a chance. But if they are only 5s then lets face it, you're not hot.
Too harsh, she has agreed to go out with him, so there's interest there. But like you said if the fvuk buddies are HB8 or above then just replicate the game he used on them to geeky gal. Then he should be able to regain control.

If they are under HB8 then he will need to play a new game.

By the way if I were you, and if you are planning to make a move Saturday night, then I'd probably try to avoid the cinema, unless you have some pre or post cinema game plan, preferably pre, as post cinema might not be shoe in.

In any case I think you should make a move soon.
 
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Too harsh, she has agreed to go out with him, so there's interest there. But like you said if the fvuk buddies are HB8 or above then just replicate the game he used on them to geeky gal. Then he should be able to regain control.

If they are under HB8 then he will need to play a new game.

^^^^^ THIS. just listen to this bro. he knwos u gotta be hot to pull this.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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