"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Quick advice on a particular approach please

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DJ Shaka

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Hi guys!

There is this woman that works in a woman clothing store a block away from my gym. I always see her alone waiting for customers and she's pretty hot.

How exactly do you approach a girl like that? She's always sitting in the far end of the store, and you have to open a door before entering.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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VdoubleR

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Let me give me something I would say in this situation.

"I was walking by and as soon as I saw you I said to myself 'Man, I have to talk to that girl' because you look (pause for effect)...bored."
Deliver the same way you would deliver a C&F line. This breaks the ice and once she gives you that beautiful smile of hers you're in!

"Hey, I'm looking for something for my (sister/cousin/whoever). You seem to have a great taste in style, would you help me choose something for her?" A little less direct but it'll do the trick.

Hope that helps. Don't forget to let us know what happens when you approach her!

-VdoubleR
 
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