"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Quick advice on a particular approach please

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DJ Shaka

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Hi guys!

There is this woman that works in a woman clothing store a block away from my gym. I always see her alone waiting for customers and she's pretty hot.

How exactly do you approach a girl like that? She's always sitting in the far end of the store, and you have to open a door before entering.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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VdoubleR

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Let me give me something I would say in this situation.

"I was walking by and as soon as I saw you I said to myself 'Man, I have to talk to that girl' because you look (pause for effect)...bored."
Deliver the same way you would deliver a C&F line. This breaks the ice and once she gives you that beautiful smile of hers you're in!

"Hey, I'm looking for something for my (sister/cousin/whoever). You seem to have a great taste in style, would you help me choose something for her?" A little less direct but it'll do the trick.

Hope that helps. Don't forget to let us know what happens when you approach her!

-VdoubleR
 
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