"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Quick advice on a particular approach please

DJ Shaka

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Hi guys!

There is this woman that works in a woman clothing store a block away from my gym. I always see her alone waiting for customers and she's pretty hot.

How exactly do you approach a girl like that? She's always sitting in the far end of the store, and you have to open a door before entering.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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VdoubleR

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Let me give me something I would say in this situation.

"I was walking by and as soon as I saw you I said to myself 'Man, I have to talk to that girl' because you look (pause for effect)...bored."
Deliver the same way you would deliver a C&F line. This breaks the ice and once she gives you that beautiful smile of hers you're in!

"Hey, I'm looking for something for my (sister/cousin/whoever). You seem to have a great taste in style, would you help me choose something for her?" A little less direct but it'll do the trick.

Hope that helps. Don't forget to let us know what happens when you approach her!

-VdoubleR
 
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