"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

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Miles28

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Hi,

I had set up a date a few days ago. Was supposed to meet a chick (hot) at 18:30. Where I am it's now 17:05. She just messaged me to say that her aunt was coming to her house and she had to meet her so could I please change the time to 20:00. It's kind of late for me. The thing is I do want to see this girl but I'm a bit p**sed off that she would change up at the last minute. I do think the reason is genuine but I also think her behaviour is a bit inconsiderate. She must have known about this family obligation before.

Shall I just tell her to forget it?

M
 

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Just tell her that it's not a problem and that you two can reschedule another day. Consider it strike one unless she responds with another counter-offer for a second day. Just measure her with her actions over the next few days. If she sets up another date with you again and it happens...AGAIN, then you know what's up with her.

I know you want to see her, but you can't go switching your dates around just for her sake. But of course, it's Date 1, so give her the benefit of the doubt, this time.
 
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