"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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M

Miles28

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Hi,

I had set up a date a few days ago. Was supposed to meet a chick (hot) at 18:30. Where I am it's now 17:05. She just messaged me to say that her aunt was coming to her house and she had to meet her so could I please change the time to 20:00. It's kind of late for me. The thing is I do want to see this girl but I'm a bit p**sed off that she would change up at the last minute. I do think the reason is genuine but I also think her behaviour is a bit inconsiderate. She must have known about this family obligation before.

Shall I just tell her to forget it?

M
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kailex

Kailex

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Just tell her that it's not a problem and that you two can reschedule another day. Consider it strike one unless she responds with another counter-offer for a second day. Just measure her with her actions over the next few days. If she sets up another date with you again and it happens...AGAIN, then you know what's up with her.

I know you want to see her, but you can't go switching your dates around just for her sake. But of course, it's Date 1, so give her the benefit of the doubt, this time.
 
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