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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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Quick advice needed (MM pickup)

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I picked up a girl who was running around a jogging track next to me. I stopped her, used DHV stuff, hit the preselection + alpha male + ability to emote + risk taker etc... she bought it all. I built a little comfort too that day. Then next day (day 2 as PUAs call it)... I built a good connection with her.. Raised the KINO.. did a lot of fun games... her comments - "you are a very good conversationalist, down to earth, friendly, other high value type compliments". NOTE: I am a beginner, so I started with a HB6. She is probably a virgin, she said she hasn't had many bfs or dates. Now, this may be a problem. When I tried the kiss close (MM style - do you want to kiss me..) She said "i'm not ready .. i dont do this often.. its not a rejection of you though" . I said fine.. and continued.


Now Day 3 is tomorrow. I seriusly HAVE to go intimate KINO - kiss close is vital. Or else I'll be LJBF'ed. Should I just KISS her.. and say sorry.. I couldnt resist. I dont know if HB6 girls have really sensitive comfort levels. I did try KINO compliance tests - 2 of 3 tests went well.


ADVICE needed for KISS close. Can't bring her home (my room is a ****ing mess) .. she says she hasn't unpacked all her stuff yet.. so her room is also a mess. NEED to KISS and seduce. Any suggestions are welcome.
 

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daygameguy said:
I picked up a girl who was running around a jogging track next to me. I stopped her, used DHV stuff, hit the preselection + alpha male + ability to emote + risk taker etc... she bought it all. I built a little comfort too that day. Then next day (day 2 as PUAs call it)... I built a good connection with her.. Raised the KINO.. did a lot of fun games... her comments - "you are a very good conversationalist, down to earth, friendly, other high value type compliments". NOTE: I am a beginner, so I started with a HB6. She is probably a virgin, she said she hasn't had many bfs or dates. Now, this may be a problem. When I tried the kiss close (MM style - do you want to kiss me..) She said "i'm not ready .. i dont do this often.. its not a rejection of you though" . I said fine.. and continued.


Now Day 3 is tomorrow. I seriusly HAVE to go intimate KINO - kiss close is vital. Or else I'll be LJBF'ed. Should I just KISS her.. and say sorry.. I couldnt resist. I dont know if HB6 girls have really sensitive comfort levels. I did try KINO compliance tests - 2 of 3 tests went well.


ADVICE needed for KISS close. Can't bring her home (my room is a ****ing mess) .. she says she hasn't unpacked all her stuff yet.. so her room is also a mess. NEED to KISS and seduce. Any suggestions are welcome.
Ok , there is no way that you can convince her logically to kiss you . You should change her mood . Dont talk about thinks that friends talk . Go with different routines , make her qualify to you more .

Than go with some hardcore kino . U can use evolution phase shift or smell her , tell she smells great and tell her you're trying too hard not to kiss her .

Also , you can take her to a club , let a lil alcohol get involved . Dance with her , have fun than kiss close her .

I dont know exactly what are your relationships with the girl .

Where are you taking her for day 3 ?
 

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daygameguy said:
I picked up a girl who was running around a jogging track next to me. I stopped her, used DHV stuff, hit the preselection + alpha male + ability to emote + risk taker etc... she bought it all. I built a little comfort too that day. Then next day (day 2 as PUAs call it)... I built a good connection with her.. Raised the KINO.. did a lot of fun games... her comments - "you are a very good conversationalist, down to earth, friendly, other high value type compliments". NOTE: I am a beginner, so I started with a HB6. She is probably a virgin, she said she hasn't had many bfs or dates. Now, this may be a problem. When I tried the kiss close (MM style - do you want to kiss me..) She said "i'm not ready .. i dont do this often.. its not a rejection of you though" . I said fine.. and continued.


Now Day 3 is tomorrow. I seriusly HAVE to go intimate KINO - kiss close is vital. Or else I'll be LJBF'ed. Should I just KISS her.. and say sorry.. I couldnt resist. I dont know if HB6 girls have really sensitive comfort levels. I did try KINO compliance tests - 2 of 3 tests went well.


ADVICE needed for KISS close. Can't bring her home (my room is a ****ing mess) .. she says she hasn't unpacked all her stuff yet.. so her room is also a mess. NEED to KISS and seduce. Any suggestions are welcome.
Oh...this post it's a mess.:p
You are looking at it from a tooo logical perspective.
By the way, why your room is a mess in a first place if you want to get with girls there?
And by the way...do you really need a beautiful room in order to bring girls in it? I don't think so..
 

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Where your sittings down with her put your arm around her. If she is fine with that. Start playing with her hair. Look her in the eyes and say: "I really like your hair color is it natural?" Or whatever... While your hopefully making deep eye contact. (while smiling :) ) Start moving in for the kiss.
 

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Daddy The Pimp said:
Ok , there is no way that you can convince her logically to kiss you . You should change her mood . Dont talk about thinks that friends talk . Go with different routines , make her qualify to you more .

Than go with some hardcore kino . U can use evolution phase shift or smell her , tell she smells great and tell her you're trying too hard not to kiss her .

Also , you can take her to a club , let a lil alcohol get involved . Dance with her , have fun than kiss close her .

I dont know exactly what are your relationships with the girl .

Where are you taking her for day 3 ?

I gonna take her (hopefully - i add it cuz my luck is usually bad) to some LA night clubs.. we can dance ... have a drink.. kiss close can come easy that way... And That line - "i'm trying so hard not to kiss u right now"... I think thats the best thing to do... I was trying the Mystery Kiss Close (if u know that already)... Anyway... I guess seduction can wait.. but I have to come out of the dreaded comfort phase with my hardcore kino, kiss close etc... i can't be LJBF'ed ... WOnT LET it Happen ..!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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daygameguy said:
I gonna take her (hopefully - i add it cuz my luck is usually bad) to some LA night clubs.. we can dance ... have a drink.. kiss close can come easy that way... And That line - "i'm trying so hard not to kiss u right now"... I think thats the best thing to do... I was trying the Mystery Kiss Close (if u know that already)... Anyway... I guess seduction can wait.. but I have to come out of the dreaded comfort phase with my hardcore kino, kiss close etc... i can't be LJBF'ed ... WOnT LET it Happen ..!!
Yea i know Mystery's Kiss Close but i dont like it that much .I dont like talking about kiss . Ill just lean in and kiss her .

Most of the times i use this " YOU SMELL SO GOOD , IM TRYING SO HARD NOT TO KISS YOU ." and start smelling her neck and kissing it lightly . Than moving up up and booom . Makeout .

Anyway , as i said before , you can also use evolution phase shift .

If you dont know it , click here to learn it
 

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Thank you guys. You guys rock. I'll report what happened.:up:
 

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She's out. Game on.

So NOW I see her - VERY homely, comes from a small town in Northern Cali... has had 1 bf bcos they were spending their whole lives together...

Her perception of me - VERY high value. Really great guy.

I made sure she had a good time on the 3rd date. I'm sure I made her day (being an HB6 she said... "the town where I come from, girls would not even respond to guys who they didnt know.")

she said - "This is my own problem....I can't handle a relationship... I have had only 1 bf.. only bcos we were spending our WHOLE lives together."

She gave me the doggie dinner bowl look all the time. I didn't KISS. Didn't see a point in doing that.

If it was any other moment - when she was done with her life as an arts student - she said she'd definitely be open to a relationship.

I feel more confident after this. AND she was not that hot (HB 6). SO, I have the whole world left to game. GAme on then.:cool:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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daygameguy said:
I feel more confident after this. AND she was not that hot (HB 6). SO, I have the whole world left to game. GAme on then.:cool:
This is a good outlook, you seem to have your head on straight.

Just for your future knowledge, Mystery Method is designed more for higher quality women, an 8 at the lowest. Anything under an 8 MM may turn them off. with 7 and below you dont need to use alot of this stuff because they are not hit on as much as the girls MM is designed for.
 

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Brandonc662 said:
This is a good outlook, you seem to have your head on straight.

Just for your future knowledge, Mystery Method is designed more for higher quality women, an 8 at the lowest. Anything under an 8 MM may turn them off. with 7 and below you dont need to use alot of this stuff because they are not hit on as much as the girls MM is designed for.
Yes. I agree with you on that. 7 and below are just happy that some guy is speaking to them. I have to muster up some balls to approach 8 and above now.
 
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