"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Quick advice needed (MM pickup)

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I picked up a girl who was running around a jogging track next to me. I stopped her, used DHV stuff, hit the preselection + alpha male + ability to emote + risk taker etc... she bought it all. I built a little comfort too that day. Then next day (day 2 as PUAs call it)... I built a good connection with her.. Raised the KINO.. did a lot of fun games... her comments - "you are a very good conversationalist, down to earth, friendly, other high value type compliments". NOTE: I am a beginner, so I started with a HB6. She is probably a virgin, she said she hasn't had many bfs or dates. Now, this may be a problem. When I tried the kiss close (MM style - do you want to kiss me..) She said "i'm not ready .. i dont do this often.. its not a rejection of you though" . I said fine.. and continued.


Now Day 3 is tomorrow. I seriusly HAVE to go intimate KINO - kiss close is vital. Or else I'll be LJBF'ed. Should I just KISS her.. and say sorry.. I couldnt resist. I dont know if HB6 girls have really sensitive comfort levels. I did try KINO compliance tests - 2 of 3 tests went well.


ADVICE needed for KISS close. Can't bring her home (my room is a ****ing mess) .. she says she hasn't unpacked all her stuff yet.. so her room is also a mess. NEED to KISS and seduce. Any suggestions are welcome.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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daygameguy said:
I picked up a girl who was running around a jogging track next to me. I stopped her, used DHV stuff, hit the preselection + alpha male + ability to emote + risk taker etc... she bought it all. I built a little comfort too that day. Then next day (day 2 as PUAs call it)... I built a good connection with her.. Raised the KINO.. did a lot of fun games... her comments - "you are a very good conversationalist, down to earth, friendly, other high value type compliments". NOTE: I am a beginner, so I started with a HB6. She is probably a virgin, she said she hasn't had many bfs or dates. Now, this may be a problem. When I tried the kiss close (MM style - do you want to kiss me..) She said "i'm not ready .. i dont do this often.. its not a rejection of you though" . I said fine.. and continued.


Now Day 3 is tomorrow. I seriusly HAVE to go intimate KINO - kiss close is vital. Or else I'll be LJBF'ed. Should I just KISS her.. and say sorry.. I couldnt resist. I dont know if HB6 girls have really sensitive comfort levels. I did try KINO compliance tests - 2 of 3 tests went well.


ADVICE needed for KISS close. Can't bring her home (my room is a ****ing mess) .. she says she hasn't unpacked all her stuff yet.. so her room is also a mess. NEED to KISS and seduce. Any suggestions are welcome.
Ok , there is no way that you can convince her logically to kiss you . You should change her mood . Dont talk about thinks that friends talk . Go with different routines , make her qualify to you more .

Than go with some hardcore kino . U can use evolution phase shift or smell her , tell she smells great and tell her you're trying too hard not to kiss her .

Also , you can take her to a club , let a lil alcohol get involved . Dance with her , have fun than kiss close her .

I dont know exactly what are your relationships with the girl .

Where are you taking her for day 3 ?
 

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daygameguy said:
I picked up a girl who was running around a jogging track next to me. I stopped her, used DHV stuff, hit the preselection + alpha male + ability to emote + risk taker etc... she bought it all. I built a little comfort too that day. Then next day (day 2 as PUAs call it)... I built a good connection with her.. Raised the KINO.. did a lot of fun games... her comments - "you are a very good conversationalist, down to earth, friendly, other high value type compliments". NOTE: I am a beginner, so I started with a HB6. She is probably a virgin, she said she hasn't had many bfs or dates. Now, this may be a problem. When I tried the kiss close (MM style - do you want to kiss me..) She said "i'm not ready .. i dont do this often.. its not a rejection of you though" . I said fine.. and continued.


Now Day 3 is tomorrow. I seriusly HAVE to go intimate KINO - kiss close is vital. Or else I'll be LJBF'ed. Should I just KISS her.. and say sorry.. I couldnt resist. I dont know if HB6 girls have really sensitive comfort levels. I did try KINO compliance tests - 2 of 3 tests went well.


ADVICE needed for KISS close. Can't bring her home (my room is a ****ing mess) .. she says she hasn't unpacked all her stuff yet.. so her room is also a mess. NEED to KISS and seduce. Any suggestions are welcome.
Oh...this post it's a mess.:p
You are looking at it from a tooo logical perspective.
By the way, why your room is a mess in a first place if you want to get with girls there?
And by the way...do you really need a beautiful room in order to bring girls in it? I don't think so..
 

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Where your sittings down with her put your arm around her. If she is fine with that. Start playing with her hair. Look her in the eyes and say: "I really like your hair color is it natural?" Or whatever... While your hopefully making deep eye contact. (while smiling :) ) Start moving in for the kiss.
 

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Daddy The Pimp said:
Ok , there is no way that you can convince her logically to kiss you . You should change her mood . Dont talk about thinks that friends talk . Go with different routines , make her qualify to you more .

Than go with some hardcore kino . U can use evolution phase shift or smell her , tell she smells great and tell her you're trying too hard not to kiss her .

Also , you can take her to a club , let a lil alcohol get involved . Dance with her , have fun than kiss close her .

I dont know exactly what are your relationships with the girl .

Where are you taking her for day 3 ?

I gonna take her (hopefully - i add it cuz my luck is usually bad) to some LA night clubs.. we can dance ... have a drink.. kiss close can come easy that way... And That line - "i'm trying so hard not to kiss u right now"... I think thats the best thing to do... I was trying the Mystery Kiss Close (if u know that already)... Anyway... I guess seduction can wait.. but I have to come out of the dreaded comfort phase with my hardcore kino, kiss close etc... i can't be LJBF'ed ... WOnT LET it Happen ..!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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daygameguy said:
I gonna take her (hopefully - i add it cuz my luck is usually bad) to some LA night clubs.. we can dance ... have a drink.. kiss close can come easy that way... And That line - "i'm trying so hard not to kiss u right now"... I think thats the best thing to do... I was trying the Mystery Kiss Close (if u know that already)... Anyway... I guess seduction can wait.. but I have to come out of the dreaded comfort phase with my hardcore kino, kiss close etc... i can't be LJBF'ed ... WOnT LET it Happen ..!!
Yea i know Mystery's Kiss Close but i dont like it that much .I dont like talking about kiss . Ill just lean in and kiss her .

Most of the times i use this " YOU SMELL SO GOOD , IM TRYING SO HARD NOT TO KISS YOU ." and start smelling her neck and kissing it lightly . Than moving up up and booom . Makeout .

Anyway , as i said before , you can also use evolution phase shift .

If you dont know it , click here to learn it
 

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Thank you guys. You guys rock. I'll report what happened.:up:
 

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She's out. Game on.

So NOW I see her - VERY homely, comes from a small town in Northern Cali... has had 1 bf bcos they were spending their whole lives together...

Her perception of me - VERY high value. Really great guy.

I made sure she had a good time on the 3rd date. I'm sure I made her day (being an HB6 she said... "the town where I come from, girls would not even respond to guys who they didnt know.")

she said - "This is my own problem....I can't handle a relationship... I have had only 1 bf.. only bcos we were spending our WHOLE lives together."

She gave me the doggie dinner bowl look all the time. I didn't KISS. Didn't see a point in doing that.

If it was any other moment - when she was done with her life as an arts student - she said she'd definitely be open to a relationship.

I feel more confident after this. AND she was not that hot (HB 6). SO, I have the whole world left to game. GAme on then.:cool:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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daygameguy said:
I feel more confident after this. AND she was not that hot (HB 6). SO, I have the whole world left to game. GAme on then.:cool:
This is a good outlook, you seem to have your head on straight.

Just for your future knowledge, Mystery Method is designed more for higher quality women, an 8 at the lowest. Anything under an 8 MM may turn them off. with 7 and below you dont need to use alot of this stuff because they are not hit on as much as the girls MM is designed for.
 

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Brandonc662 said:
This is a good outlook, you seem to have your head on straight.

Just for your future knowledge, Mystery Method is designed more for higher quality women, an 8 at the lowest. Anything under an 8 MM may turn them off. with 7 and below you dont need to use alot of this stuff because they are not hit on as much as the girls MM is designed for.
Yes. I agree with you on that. 7 and below are just happy that some guy is speaking to them. I have to muster up some balls to approach 8 and above now.
 
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