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[LAL2416]

This is my first post.

Basically I started hooking up with this on a regular basis. Every night I stayed at her place. Things were going great for a month or two; she told me that she likes me a lot/is falling for me but at the same time, she said she doesn't want a boyfriend. She's told me everything about her from favorite food to deep secrets.

After that great month or two she tells me she wants to stop what we were doing. The next few times we hung out she starts hugging me, leaning on me and grabs me. She tells me to stop chasing her and says you don't know me at all. She proceeds to hook up with another dude. She moved on from him and is hooking up with other dudes.

Every time I see her now she smiles but then looks sad at the same time.

What did I do wrong?
Is she just seeking attention?

 

[sph21]

You posted on the wrong section. You should have posted on the Don Juan Discussion section.

Here's what you did wrong:
1. You were too available for her (not being a challange for her).

Every night I stayed at her place.

2. You were indirectly telling her that you just want to be a friend since you never escalate your relationship.

she told me that she likes me a lot/is falling for me but at the same time, she said she doesn't want a boyfriend. She's told me everything about her from favorite food to deep secrets.

3. You made her bored by doing nice things to her.

After that great month or two she tells me she wants to stop what we were doing.

4. Did you ever say something that make her feel pity for you?

Every time I see her now she smiles but then looks sad at the same time.

If you did, then that's the reason why she looks sad.

If a girl tells you that she doen't want a boyfriend, this only mean that she doesn't want you to be her boyfriend.

She tells me to stop chasing her and says you don't know me at all

Girls usually say indirectly of what's on their minds. But if a girl tells you something like the above, she does mean it. She had to do that since you still don't get it what she told you indirectly earlier.