Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Questions to keep the set going !

ashman1

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Sup, fellow DJs .

Heres my question :

I usually get those awkward silent moments in sets with women .
and i heard that asking un-ordinary questions to keep them talking
is one key way to get to the close .

So what are some great un-ordinary questions i could ask ? any ideas ?
also what are some other ways to keep the woman from getting board with me ? - Ashman1 :nervous:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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darkjedi

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I used to feel the same way about awkward silence when having a convo with a set, but I learned that silent moments are not as bad as you think as long as you are looking calm, cool, confident while flowing the convo naturally. In fact, the set prob won't even be thinking about it as they can tell by looking at you that you are not worried about it.

If I want to keep a woman talking to me without getting bored, I will get her to talk about herself. You would be surprised at how much a woman will tell you about herself and what she has going on, ect. What makes this so good is that she will definitely not get bored with you and she will feel that much closer to you cause she is telling you so much. Another point is that you also want to exit the set on a high note, so leave once the convo is getting good.
 

r0cky

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An unordinary question you can ask:
So what did you want to be when you were 7 yrs old?
If you could have a superpower what would it be?
If you could be any animal what would you be?

When things start to get boring just ask about her interests. Then find some interest you have in common and use that as an excuse to contact her again.
Then go for the #

Dont linger with any set. I've seen people lingering for 15 minutes or more talking about boring stuff. If you're lasting that long with a set you better make sure everybopdy is having a blast and they're begging you to stay. Otherwise, 10 mins or so should be enough to get the # and split.
 
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