“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Questions on long distance relationships

rocco

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How often should we talk with eachother? What are like some general guidelines I should follow in a long distance relationship?
 

Colossus

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The first rule you should follow is not to get into an LDR.

Since you already are in one, your approach to this is really just palliative--meaning you can only treat it symptomatically. It will eventually crumble. Sorry man, I wish you the best, but LDRs have a shelf life.

I know people who have done it successfully, but they all had a plan--the distance was temporary. And they stayed in daily contact, otherwise you're just living separate lives.
 

sodbuster

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Collossus nailed it. I've been there,done that. Doesn't work if you aren't planning to move together again-after school,etc. It's just too hard to do when there are plenty of other willing partners out there for both of you.
 

Julius_Seizeher

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You're going to grow apart and start seeing other people, both of you will be too cowardly to just breakup. And the pain will be so much worse when you beat yourself up for not just cutting your losses a long time ago.

I'm a highly positive man and believe in infinite possibilities. But when it comes to LDRs, it's just the way it is.
 
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