"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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questions on kino

skd

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My friend is always play-fighting with these two girl friends of ours in our dorms and whenever the four of us do something, such as watching a movie, the two of them join him on his bed while I get my bed to myself. I don't want to be doing the same stuff he is just to get their attention, but I was wondering if I should do anything.

Isn't kino supposed to be a reward for good behavior? and is it good to have kino such as play-fighting without escalating for a long time?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Warlord

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Your friend could be gay, pimp, or both. Regardless, play-fighting does not make you equal to a man.
 

spitkicker

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He is providing them with emotions. When he is fighting them, their hearts are racing. girls live for this. Also, he is giving off a playful vibe, something girls LOVE. Kino CAN be a reward, but it is also a statement.
 
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