"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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questions on kino

skd

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My friend is always play-fighting with these two girl friends of ours in our dorms and whenever the four of us do something, such as watching a movie, the two of them join him on his bed while I get my bed to myself. I don't want to be doing the same stuff he is just to get their attention, but I was wondering if I should do anything.

Isn't kino supposed to be a reward for good behavior? and is it good to have kino such as play-fighting without escalating for a long time?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Warlord

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Your friend could be gay, pimp, or both. Regardless, play-fighting does not make you equal to a man.
 

spitkicker

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He is providing them with emotions. When he is fighting them, their hearts are racing. girls live for this. Also, he is giving off a playful vibe, something girls LOVE. Kino CAN be a reward, but it is also a statement.
 
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