"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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questions i have. so many of them!

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i wrote my story briefly earlier. But i couldnt go into full details as there is a lot to say. So i will ask the questions

1) Can a girl ever be too busy too pick up a phone call or skype within a 2 month period?

2) If a girl says they really like you and are flying down to see you, then why dont they like you enough to pick up the phone of skype, cos surely you would prefer that than to watsapp or fb chat all the time?

3)Is it normal for a girl to fly down to see you with her friend rather than not come on her own? And also fly down to a different city that you are currently living in?

4)Why would a girl definitely say that she prefers skyping and talking on the phone and seeing someone in person rather than talking on fb chat then two months later never does- cos she is busy moving house and it is the end of the financial year so she is really busy.

i have so many more questions because i am confused and a neewbie. Also is it better to get a girls opinion on this stuff?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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lamobatsman said:
i wrote my story briefly earlier. But i couldnt go into full details as there is a lot to say. So i will ask the questions

1) Can a girl ever be too busy too pick up a phone call or skype within a 2 month period?

hell no

2) If a girl says they really like you and are flying down to see you, then why dont they like you enough to pick up the phone of skype, cos surely you would prefer that than to watsapp or fb chat all the time?

3)Is it normal for a girl to fly down to see you with her friend rather than not come on her own? And also fly down to a different city that you are currently living in?

depends on how well you know her and if you are intimate or not

4)Why would a girl definitely say that she prefers skyping and talking on the phone and seeing someone in person rather than talking on fb chat then two months later never does- cos she is busy moving house and it is the end of the financial year so she is really busy.
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obvious long distance relationship and now she is flaking because she met someone else...life sucks sometimes i know but find someone else near you
 
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is that the same chick???? you should never speak to anymore...no interest level at all...kissing another guy in front of you...ignoring you....WTH would you still deal with her????
 
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yes its the same chick zinc 4. Wat i am trying to understand is the two months leading up to our meet where and what went rong in our interaction. I want to know if there were red flags that she threw that i cud have seen and walked away ages agoo?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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yes its the same chick zinc 4. Wat i am trying to understand is the two months leading up to our meet where and what went rong in our interaction. I want to know if there were red flags that she threw that i cud have seen and walked away ages agoo?
 
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also do girls prefer talking on skype and phone calls rather than on watsapp? i asusme if a girl likes you theyd rather prefer skype and talk on teh fone?
 
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