Excellent thread... Chance, you put some real high quality stuff up there. It seems that the PRIMARY argument, as it is with most of the women that come in here, is weather or not men can take any action to make themselves more attractive to women. The "outside" women that post in here from time to time like to argue that there is not, and I've never understood why they think that way.
Men do not think that way about women. First impressions are most important, but recently I've seen some girls that I used to know from 3 or 4 years ago... some of the ones that were not attractive then are attractive now, and vice versa. Why is this? Because they made changes in themselves, be it in the way they look, act, talk, etc... in some way, some of them have managed to change their overall persona in a way that makes them attractive now, when they were not attractive before. Others did just the opposite.
I don’t see why some women think it is any different with men. The only plausible explanation I have ever heard is that these women like to think of themselves as superior in some way (to both guys and other girls that don’t think as they do), and as such, they can’t handle the thought that they might not be in total control of every aspect of their social lives.
I know of few guys on this board (or in real life) that will not tell you that at one time they were clueless with women, made some changes at some point, and learned some things than enable them to enjoy a greater degree of success today. Changes which were not accomplished through some magical, mysterious way, but through logical, focused analysis of their behaviors, thought patterns, looks, etc, and conscious efforts to better every aspect of their own outgoing persona so they could be more successful in every aspect of their life… which brings me to another point. The women who just drop in here, read one or two threads, and go off on a tangent about how horrible SS is (or something similar) are missing the entire point of the site. The central theory here is to better yourself in every aspect of life, from physical fitness to career ambition, to developing an outgoing and confident personality, etc. Once this is accomplished, it is literally almost impossible to NOT attract women… and this has ABSOLUTLEY nothing to do with “tricks and mind games”, and it has everything to do with making positive changes in your life that will, among other things, attract more women. However, from the standpoint of looking at the pure theory of this site, I only look at attracting women as one of the “bonuses” of putting ideas into practice.
Once you truly look good, feel good, and have the attitude that “this world is mine for the taking”, you are going to be more successful in every aspect of your life, including your romantic life, than any AFC could ever be. Some women don’t like that thought. Oh well. The guys that truly absorb the bulk of what this site is trying to tell them will not care.
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[This message has been edited by ttbadboy (edited 12-11-2002).]
