"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Questions about joining a gym.

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nattaplaya

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1. Should I join a small gym, or a gym like Bally's Total Fitness?

2. How are membership fees paid? Monthly? Is there a contract?

3. My goal and focus will be on strength training and bulking up, but I wouldn't mind seeing a large number of attractive women getting there bodies fit. Is a bigger gym like Bally's good for this aspect?

4. How long does a typical person stay at a gym?

5. If you belong to a gym, please describe the atmosphere, why you like it, etc.


Thanks!!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Fuglydude

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1. Depends on your budget and what kind of equipment you need/want. Other things to take into account are hours of operation, how close it is to where you work, live, go to school, etc.

2. Depends on the gym. Most places will charge you an initiation fee...typically 100-300 up front, and bill you monthly. Gyms here usually charge 30 to 60/month. There's other fees at the start when you first sign up as well. Most gyms will have you sign a 1-2 year contact and give you the option to pay the year up front. Some gyms allow month-to-month as wel.

3. Most gyms have lotsa hot women! I think bigger gyms are better for this.

4. No clue...I'm not normal.... :D

5. I've met lotsa people from my gyms. They're pretty much always guys who are trainers, powerlifters, etc or other individuals who have an interest in strength and fitness. I've never really met women at the gym...
 

The Bat

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If you are in a small town, there should be gyms that give you the option of charging a small monthly fee. Long term contracts are cost-efficient however with that comes committment. If you're starting out, might as well stick to monthly contracts because you might end up NOT liking the place after awhile.

Are you going to the gym to get bigger and stronger or to add notches on your bedpost? Don't get your priorities mixed up.
 

oakraiderz2

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24 hr fitness or ballys, month to month. No contract, 30 a month.
 
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nattaplaya

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The Bat said:
If you are in a small town, there should be gyms that give you the option of charging a small monthly fee. Long term contracts are cost-efficient however with that comes committment. If you're starting out, might as well stick to monthly contracts because you might end up NOT liking the place after awhile.

Are you going to the gym to get bigger and stronger or to add notches on your bedpost? Don't get your priorities mixed up.
To get bigger (but not huge) and stronger. I wouldn't mind a few flings.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I-tallionStallion

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Don't worry man, takes a long time to get huge :up: Just do everything right till you feel as strong and good-looking as you want.
 
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