"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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questions about homecoming

dannowillbookem

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well, i've never been to homecoming (im a sophmore and freshman year i was afc/antisocial) so if u guys have any tips...stuff like the right way to ask the chick. i'll probably shoot for a pretty prep chick (cause i'm danno! lol) and she'll probably have a limo ride going down with friends so i'll just join in on that. i assume i'll have to wear (sigh) a tux and will have to (sigh) dance.

god this is gonna be harder to pull off than i thought. lol
 

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Alright you won't have to wear a tux to homecomming. No one does. (atleast not around here, some people where just jeans and a tee shirt, but I would suggest a buttoned up shirt and a tie and some nice pants).
And dancing kicks ass.

Extra bonus: You will probaly take your tie off sometime you can use it with dancing. When your chick is infront of you (facing either towards you or away from you) throw it around her and use it to pull her toward you.
 

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At my school homecomming is no big deal. Not many people even ask a date to come with them. It is basically any other dance. Christmans dance and Prom are the only formal dances.
 

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Isn't homecoming a little ways away? like school just started and you are already thinking about a dance? Take life one day at a time.
 

dannowillbookem

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Originally posted by 08aisaac
Isn't homecoming a little ways away? like school just started and you are already thinking about a dance? Take life one day at a time.
lol i know it was just something i thougth about...

better early than late
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The Comeback Kid

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I don't start school till September, but this thread interests me.

I went to my Homecoming Dance for the first time last year (Junior year) and I got so stiff/nervous that I looked like a statue. I can't dance and the one time I tried, :eek: (probably wasn't pretty). It also hurt that hot girls kept approching my friends...while they were with me! I didn't even get a damn look...WTF (and this was before I got real nervous and had no clue what I was doing)??

Oh well. At least I know I can't do worst this coming year lol. :crackup:

So again, I'll be interested to see what the responses to this thread is...it can help a few of us.
 

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If you have never gone to a dance I say just go there and enjoy yourself. Get the feeling of what its like being at a dance. It seems people change a lot at dances, they become more wild and crazy which is a good thing. Don't be too worried about picking up a girl beforehand you can do it at the dance (unless I guess they have a date) Just ask a girl to dance with you and go from there.
 

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clothing...

so i could get away with a nice colored button down shirt and dress pants with dress shoes?

sounds good. and a tie.

lol after hearing that account comeback kid gave i'm actually nervous.

havent felt like this in a long time.
 

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Well I am a sophmore tommorrow, but I missed sll of last years dances and I heard that they all sucked. I live on a very limited income so It would take me a while to get a nice suit together.

I plan on wearing a reall hot pair of semi tight bluejeans, A long sleave shirt and a blazer. Shouldn't be that expensive.

I dunno for the shoes.
 

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Originally posted by dannowillbookem
i assume i'll have to wear (sigh) a tux and will have to (sigh) dance.
I used to hate these things. Learn to love them, though - you'll be a happier person. I love wearing a suit, and dancing is fun too - although I didn't think that way when I was 15, I wished I had.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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