"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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questions about homecoming

dannowillbookem

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well, i've never been to homecoming (im a sophmore and freshman year i was afc/antisocial) so if u guys have any tips...stuff like the right way to ask the chick. i'll probably shoot for a pretty prep chick (cause i'm danno! lol) and she'll probably have a limo ride going down with friends so i'll just join in on that. i assume i'll have to wear (sigh) a tux and will have to (sigh) dance.

god this is gonna be harder to pull off than i thought. lol
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Best friends? NAY

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Alright you won't have to wear a tux to homecomming. No one does. (atleast not around here, some people where just jeans and a tee shirt, but I would suggest a buttoned up shirt and a tie and some nice pants).
And dancing kicks ass.

Extra bonus: You will probaly take your tie off sometime you can use it with dancing. When your chick is infront of you (facing either towards you or away from you) throw it around her and use it to pull her toward you.
 

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At my school homecomming is no big deal. Not many people even ask a date to come with them. It is basically any other dance. Christmans dance and Prom are the only formal dances.
 

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Isn't homecoming a little ways away? like school just started and you are already thinking about a dance? Take life one day at a time.
 

dannowillbookem

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Originally posted by 08aisaac
Isn't homecoming a little ways away? like school just started and you are already thinking about a dance? Take life one day at a time.
lol i know it was just something i thougth about...

better early than late
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Comeback Kid

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I don't start school till September, but this thread interests me.

I went to my Homecoming Dance for the first time last year (Junior year) and I got so stiff/nervous that I looked like a statue. I can't dance and the one time I tried, :eek: (probably wasn't pretty). It also hurt that hot girls kept approching my friends...while they were with me! I didn't even get a damn look...WTF (and this was before I got real nervous and had no clue what I was doing)??

Oh well. At least I know I can't do worst this coming year lol. :crackup:

So again, I'll be interested to see what the responses to this thread is...it can help a few of us.
 

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If you have never gone to a dance I say just go there and enjoy yourself. Get the feeling of what its like being at a dance. It seems people change a lot at dances, they become more wild and crazy which is a good thing. Don't be too worried about picking up a girl beforehand you can do it at the dance (unless I guess they have a date) Just ask a girl to dance with you and go from there.
 

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clothing...

so i could get away with a nice colored button down shirt and dress pants with dress shoes?

sounds good. and a tie.

lol after hearing that account comeback kid gave i'm actually nervous.

havent felt like this in a long time.
 

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Well I am a sophmore tommorrow, but I missed sll of last years dances and I heard that they all sucked. I live on a very limited income so It would take me a while to get a nice suit together.

I plan on wearing a reall hot pair of semi tight bluejeans, A long sleave shirt and a blazer. Shouldn't be that expensive.

I dunno for the shoes.
 

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Originally posted by dannowillbookem
i assume i'll have to wear (sigh) a tux and will have to (sigh) dance.
I used to hate these things. Learn to love them, though - you'll be a happier person. I love wearing a suit, and dancing is fun too - although I didn't think that way when I was 15, I wished I had.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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