"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Smooth Player 056

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I am 16......since working out I have gained 10 pounds so now I weigh 130, at 6'1............I jsut did the bench press for my first time.......I thought it was going to be a breeze.....I could barely do 15 reps with just the bar...Is this normal for someone in HS starting out??.......I also just started taking Creatine, and NO2.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lifeforce

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Yeah it's normal don't worry, your bench will increase
 

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
I also just started taking Creatine, and NO2.
If you are just now starting to work out DO NOT take creatine and NO2. The only supplements you should be taking is a multi vitamin and maybe whey protien powder. It sounds that you are pretty skinny and are wanting to gain weight... the most important thing is FOOD. Eat, eat, eat, then eat some more dont take creatine and no2 and expect to be doing anything good for your body sense you dont have much muscle development yet.
 

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Those reps seem kinda high dude, maybe you should increase weights and lift slower. And creatine and whatever that crap is will increase 1-2% performance. I highly doubt that's worth $20 a month. That's like buying 93 octane gas when your 4 cylinder only needs 87. Just a waste of money...
 
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