"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Smooth Player 056

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I am 16......since working out I have gained 10 pounds so now I weigh 130, at 6'1............I jsut did the bench press for my first time.......I thought it was going to be a breeze.....I could barely do 15 reps with just the bar...Is this normal for someone in HS starting out??.......I also just started taking Creatine, and NO2.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeah it's normal don't worry, your bench will increase
 

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
I also just started taking Creatine, and NO2.
If you are just now starting to work out DO NOT take creatine and NO2. The only supplements you should be taking is a multi vitamin and maybe whey protien powder. It sounds that you are pretty skinny and are wanting to gain weight... the most important thing is FOOD. Eat, eat, eat, then eat some more dont take creatine and no2 and expect to be doing anything good for your body sense you dont have much muscle development yet.
 

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Those reps seem kinda high dude, maybe you should increase weights and lift slower. And creatine and whatever that crap is will increase 1-2% performance. I highly doubt that's worth $20 a month. That's like buying 93 octane gas when your 4 cylinder only needs 87. Just a waste of money...
 
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