"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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QuIjebo

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I have been reading stuff on here for the past month and it has changed my life! My best bud told me about this site and it is a great place. But, i will get to the point.

There is this girl who is hot, that works at a SUB joint. She is hot, and i want to ask her out. How do you ask chicks out in those kind of places ? (Her work)
There are people always coming in, and there are sometimes people she works with there as well.

It's kind of strange to ask some one out with others around. (Or is it?)

Is there some special way of doing this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sasha

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call a bomb threat or start fire alarm. So when everybody is out of the building, go over to her and ask what is happenin :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

Aisujin

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Go get a sub and say to her "Hi I think your really attractive and I'd like to have a cup of coffee with you after work. "
 

brenbaus

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Pickups at a girls work are easy, especially if they work at like a sub place or something, because alot of times they feel unattractive at work, so if you tell them that you find them attractive at work, they LOVE it! Get the number and ask her out for coffee or something
 
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