"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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QuIjebo

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I have been reading stuff on here for the past month and it has changed my life! My best bud told me about this site and it is a great place. But, i will get to the point.

There is this girl who is hot, that works at a SUB joint. She is hot, and i want to ask her out. How do you ask chicks out in those kind of places ? (Her work)
There are people always coming in, and there are sometimes people she works with there as well.

It's kind of strange to ask some one out with others around. (Or is it?)

Is there some special way of doing this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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Sasha

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call a bomb threat or start fire alarm. So when everybody is out of the building, go over to her and ask what is happenin :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

Aisujin

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Go get a sub and say to her "Hi I think your really attractive and I'd like to have a cup of coffee with you after work. "
 

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Pickups at a girls work are easy, especially if they work at like a sub place or something, because alot of times they feel unattractive at work, so if you tell them that you find them attractive at work, they LOVE it! Get the number and ask her out for coffee or something
 
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