"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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zerocelcius

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Have you ever tried to use the diffrent approaches with diffrent women and seen what one worked best?

This weekend I am going to try it.

I have a few appointments with a few ladies, and I am going to use the diffrent methods to see which one works.

I am going to DA's approach of ****y and funny.
Than the speed suduction.
Than this Tantric Style I have been studying.

3 diffrent ladies, 3 diffrent approaches.

HOWEVER I have one more girl. Any other approaches I should use that you would be curious about the results?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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not sure about that one explain!
 

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I was being sarcastic... just go out and try and **** the last girl. Do whatever you FEEL at that moment will make her want it. The worst thing that can happen, you don't **** her. The best thing, you do.
 

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Results are In

OK here are the results of the test.

****y and Funny for the most part worked good but read bottom.

Speed Suduction... to akward!!! It was hard going from "Hey, How are you?" to "What is a HARD decission that you had to MAKE when it CAME to LOVE??"
*you feel me?*

than Came this tantric stuff I was telling you about... WOW!!! BeST POOO ever! WOrks way more than C&F! and way better than SS.

If you are intrested in learning more about the tantric stuff let me know. I will spread the wisdom and it is easier than you would ever think!!!!! Ohh and I will tell you free of charge... not like some people.

ok here are some side notes I learned.

****y and FUNNY: First of all use it learn it keep it. By far the best key in approach. When subjects change or when they say somthing weird, etc key in on it and use the ****y and funny it lightnes the mood and lets them know you know they made a mistake or things or getting deep... and it lets them know that you are listening and that you are fun...

GOOD KEEP but.... use at the right timming. I light opener is ok. than dont use it too much. Use it as a accent or frosting on the cake.

now speed suduction... was way too weird to use on a date setting UNLESS it is time to ask questions than It fits in fine. SO again timeing.

Now the tantric stuff is way easy and was the most responsive. When applying it The simple and Non verbal part was great at first it seemed they were taken back, than they let it known that there was somthing special about it. Like "nobody has looked at me like that" SO how was I looking at her?

I will break it down to those who want to know...

For now I am tired. Peace
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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