"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Lordlaxative

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I know this is more HS forum, but... how does a Don Juan remain a challenge when he has to see the girl he "seeks" everyday (The girl sits behind me in one class)? The "get them interested, then back off" can't really aplly as well. Please help out an aspiring Don Juan
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Make eye contact and say "Hi... My name's ___"
 

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Originally posted by Chip
Make eye contact and say "Hi... My name's ___"
No its as simple as: READ THE FUKING BIBLE!

Were pretty far away from ****ing around with Player Supreme to make him lose his temper.
 

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Sorry...

My bad, I meant that I already know her, and I like her. But I worry about talking to her too much and seeming too desperate.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Try making a witty comment or two once in a while to get the class laughing, then you could make eye contact and smile at her, then look away.

The concept of being a challenge is still virtually identical whether it's in the classroom or not. Just have the mindset that you don't need her, get her to become attracted to you (build rapport as KC said), and don't raise her on that imaginary pedestal.
 

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Challenge never changed anything to begin with. Just relax and be you. Talk to her when you want to. If the entire 'attraction' system was based off of Challenge, you're right....NOBODY would hook up in HS, or anywhere else for that matter.
 

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Just don't reveal so much about yourself... keep things a mystery... the most she should know is your name, your rep (Straight, with a ton of girls waiting in line), and eventually your number... other than that, she will need to earn that knowledge.
 
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Originally posted by MrBond007
No its as simple as: READ THE FUKING BIBLE!

Were pretty far away from ****ing around with Player Supreme to make him lose his temper.
put your wee lil testorone driving nutz on chill paper boy! your going to get acne if you keep stressin like this...

why don't you spit some read advice for the laddy!
 

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Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Did I tell you Im old enough to even have 3 sons and one of them beleives its cool to be gay.
Oh my!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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