There is one girl who I know for many years. We went to the same primary school, recently due to her FB relations I realized she lives close to me. We have never been close, however, we have just a brief conversation. I am not too sure how should I start it “for real”. Should I connect it somehow to the past or start as with a new girl?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Try to get her alone and make a move on her. If she doesn't cooperate, DTB (Dump That Biatch). Rinse and repeat with every girl you meet.
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Your best bet is to give her a negative comment in the initial conversation. But you have to be subtle.
"I remember you. You always wore the dorky jeans lol" ...or something relevant of the sort.
If she has sexual interest in you, she'll respond.
If she doesn't respond, forget about her. Find another girl to be fixated with
"I remember you. You always wore the dorky jeans lol" ...or something relevant of the sort.
If she has sexual interest in you, she'll respond.
If she doesn't respond, forget about her. Find another girl to be fixated with