There is one girl who I know for many years. We went to the same primary school, recently due to her FB relations I realized she lives close to me. We have never been close, however, we have just a brief conversation. I am not too sure how should I start it “for real”. Should I connect it somehow to the past or start as with a new girl?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Try to get her alone and make a move on her. If she doesn't cooperate, DTB (Dump That Biatch). Rinse and repeat with every girl you meet.
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Your best bet is to give her a negative comment in the initial conversation. But you have to be subtle.
"I remember you. You always wore the dorky jeans lol" ...or something relevant of the sort.
If she has sexual interest in you, she'll respond.
If she doesn't respond, forget about her. Find another girl to be fixated with
"I remember you. You always wore the dorky jeans lol" ...or something relevant of the sort.
If she has sexual interest in you, she'll respond.
If she doesn't respond, forget about her. Find another girl to be fixated with