"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Met this girl on match.com...asked her to meet up for a coffee. She replied she is busy this weekend but maybe next week sometime ? This is twice now. So what is the best response in this situation. Do you just not answer anymore ?

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I follow a "two strikes" rule. If you have tried twice to set up a date with her and she won't give a firm alternate date, stop all contact with her.

I'm working on someone from match also. She seemed very interested and gave me her number on her first email. She won't pick up when i call, so I left my second and last message.
 
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She's just fishing! Attention Whor.es who go on line & see how many gulible men she can get to respond to her. She has no intention of ever seeing you IRL. Forget about her, even if she does call back!
 
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