"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Met this girl on match.com...asked her to meet up for a coffee. She replied she is busy this weekend but maybe next week sometime ? This is twice now. So what is the best response in this situation. Do you just not answer anymore ?

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mike32ct

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I follow a "two strikes" rule. If you have tried twice to set up a date with her and she won't give a firm alternate date, stop all contact with her.

I'm working on someone from match also. She seemed very interested and gave me her number on her first email. She won't pick up when i call, so I left my second and last message.
 

WaterTiger

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She's just fishing! Attention Whor.es who go on line & see how many gulible men she can get to respond to her. She has no intention of ever seeing you IRL. Forget about her, even if she does call back!
 
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