"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Zenon

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Last night I was having sex with my girlfriend, when her ex called her. He said he just wanted to see how is she doing. Considering that me and her ex are known in our town for seduction skills, i felt terrible, like he's trying to beat me on my game (because I'm far better seducer than him), and we both consider my current girlfriend as a trophy! She went out with him 2 years ago for about a month, while i'm dating her for 9 months now! (yes, i love her). I couldn't say anything because she caught me cheating, but i really dont know what to do. I dont want to beat the **** out of him (even though i can do that easily, i have thick police files and he's a ****ing metrosexual), and i dont want to warn him, cuz that would make him feel good. But i feel bad! I feel like ****, because i dont know what to do? Can you do me a big favor and tell me what to do?

P.s.:My gf said that if he calls her for a coffe she would like to see him, and give an to even talking to him! i said i was cool with that but im not? what to do?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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you know the answer

what do you feel like doing?

just go do that thing
 
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WC2

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Why so stressed?

You've been dating this girl who's a "trophy" and you've never had anyone hit on her before? Stop being so jealous. Jealousy is a woman's game. Let this thing blow over, because your girl is going to treat this like a test.

For now, don't react irrationally. Just act like the whole thing didn't happen. Let this dude call all he wants. It's not until you see your woman calling HIM, that you need to start worrying.
 
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