"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Last night I was having sex with my girlfriend, when her ex called her. He said he just wanted to see how is she doing. Considering that me and her ex are known in our town for seduction skills, i felt terrible, like he's trying to beat me on my game (because I'm far better seducer than him), and we both consider my current girlfriend as a trophy! She went out with him 2 years ago for about a month, while i'm dating her for 9 months now! (yes, i love her). I couldn't say anything because she caught me cheating, but i really dont know what to do. I dont want to beat the **** out of him (even though i can do that easily, i have thick police files and he's a ****ing metrosexual), and i dont want to warn him, cuz that would make him feel good. But i feel bad! I feel like ****, because i dont know what to do? Can you do me a big favor and tell me what to do?

P.s.:My gf said that if he calls her for a coffe she would like to see him, and give an to even talking to him! i said i was cool with that but im not? what to do?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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you know the answer

what do you feel like doing?

just go do that thing
 
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Why so stressed?

You've been dating this girl who's a "trophy" and you've never had anyone hit on her before? Stop being so jealous. Jealousy is a woman's game. Let this thing blow over, because your girl is going to treat this like a test.

For now, don't react irrationally. Just act like the whole thing didn't happen. Let this dude call all he wants. It's not until you see your woman calling HIM, that you need to start worrying.
 
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