"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Zenon

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Last night I was having sex with my girlfriend, when her ex called her. He said he just wanted to see how is she doing. Considering that me and her ex are known in our town for seduction skills, i felt terrible, like he's trying to beat me on my game (because I'm far better seducer than him), and we both consider my current girlfriend as a trophy! She went out with him 2 years ago for about a month, while i'm dating her for 9 months now! (yes, i love her). I couldn't say anything because she caught me cheating, but i really dont know what to do. I dont want to beat the **** out of him (even though i can do that easily, i have thick police files and he's a ****ing metrosexual), and i dont want to warn him, cuz that would make him feel good. But i feel bad! I feel like ****, because i dont know what to do? Can you do me a big favor and tell me what to do?

P.s.:My gf said that if he calls her for a coffe she would like to see him, and give an to even talking to him! i said i was cool with that but im not? what to do?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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JahGlory

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you know the answer

what do you feel like doing?

just go do that thing
 

WC2

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Why so stressed?

You've been dating this girl who's a "trophy" and you've never had anyone hit on her before? Stop being so jealous. Jealousy is a woman's game. Let this thing blow over, because your girl is going to treat this like a test.

For now, don't react irrationally. Just act like the whole thing didn't happen. Let this dude call all he wants. It's not until you see your woman calling HIM, that you need to start worrying.
 
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