"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Question

BxPrince24

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 5, 2005
Messages
421
Reaction score
1
When conversing with women, specifically women you find attractive, what kind of questions should I be asking? I know how to keep convos with women it's just that I feel like i end up talkin about things that are either movin me to the friend zone or not goin anywhere at all. I ask things like what have they done over the weekend, where they would like to travel, what do they plan to do for their b-days, etc... Is there something specific that I should be asking or is there something that I could do to make it not so much as a convo with a friend but a convo with a possible date?

I already know:
-Don't talk about anything depressing/sad/mood killing.
-Don't talk much about myself, keep the convo on her.
-Elaborate on her previous answers to my questions.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Fuglydude

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 13, 2006
Messages
1,541
Reaction score
50
Location
Alberta, Canada
Bro, i'm not a great conversationalist myself, but I find sexualizing lotsa stuff, being playful, witty and fun works great with women. I always ask questions about ex's and bad dates that they've had... tease about sexual stuff, etc... I also find asking them to tell a funny story (when its appropriate and in context of course), or telling a funny story yourself is great as well.

Just go out, interact and have fun! If u have fun in the convo she will too!
 

Fuglydude

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 13, 2006
Messages
1,541
Reaction score
50
Location
Alberta, Canada
Diesel_Power said:
WRONG! Never talk about ex's.
I always talk about chics I've hooked up with during dates because I've got funny sex stories about lots of them... A person's ex's/bad dates, etc form an important part of their life experiences, and play a role in molding them as a person. More importantly perhaps, they can be funny as hell...and often end up entertaining me...

Me any my girlfriend openly discuss our past experiences w/ dating and stuff...

And quite frankly... I could care less about what girls think of me, as long as I am satisfied with myself and my progress in life... As the saying goes "plenty off fish in the sea..."
 
Top