"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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BxPrince24

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When conversing with women, specifically women you find attractive, what kind of questions should I be asking? I know how to keep convos with women it's just that I feel like i end up talkin about things that are either movin me to the friend zone or not goin anywhere at all. I ask things like what have they done over the weekend, where they would like to travel, what do they plan to do for their b-days, etc... Is there something specific that I should be asking or is there something that I could do to make it not so much as a convo with a friend but a convo with a possible date?

I already know:
-Don't talk about anything depressing/sad/mood killing.
-Don't talk much about myself, keep the convo on her.
-Elaborate on her previous answers to my questions.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Fuglydude

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Bro, i'm not a great conversationalist myself, but I find sexualizing lotsa stuff, being playful, witty and fun works great with women. I always ask questions about ex's and bad dates that they've had... tease about sexual stuff, etc... I also find asking them to tell a funny story (when its appropriate and in context of course), or telling a funny story yourself is great as well.

Just go out, interact and have fun! If u have fun in the convo she will too!
 

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Diesel_Power said:
WRONG! Never talk about ex's.
I always talk about chics I've hooked up with during dates because I've got funny sex stories about lots of them... A person's ex's/bad dates, etc form an important part of their life experiences, and play a role in molding them as a person. More importantly perhaps, they can be funny as hell...and often end up entertaining me...

Me any my girlfriend openly discuss our past experiences w/ dating and stuff...

And quite frankly... I could care less about what girls think of me, as long as I am satisfied with myself and my progress in life... As the saying goes "plenty off fish in the sea..."
 
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