- Jun 23, 2014
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If a seller has a pre-determined buyer, for whatever reason, then the house is not on the market. Especially if another buyer offered more money.
The case you describe is a "one-seller / one-buyer" market. Apples and oranges.
The situation I'm describing is a discriminatory market, sort of like institutional racism. It's where I'm not going to visibly SAY I don't want an XYZ type of person to work here, I'm just going to only HIRE the type of people that I want to work here. In other words, I'll let anyone interview, but I already know the "type" I'm going to hire.
I totally agree that quality is subjective and in the eyes of the beholder. That is why my stance on there being nothing but low quality women available, is really based on my definition of quality which is based on a traditional standpoint.taiyuu_otoko
1) "quality" is a purely subjective definition.
2) In any market there will be "low quality" products and "high quality" products.
And TECHNICALLY, each product ("high quality" and "low quality") makes up it's own market, from a supply demand standpoint.
There ARE high quality women. There IS a market comprised ONLY of high quality women.
Plenty of guys are GETTING high quality women.
Plenty (literally millions) of men are MARRIED to what they describe as "high quality" women.
Based on my definition of quality, there's no equal opportunity market available where I can go to XYZ place or town or website or networking club, to only meet those types of women that I deem quality. Instead, the traditional women that I'm referring to don't exist in the market AT ALL because the "product" (traditional women) have gone out of style. I'm a guy with a JERI-CURL desire in a "low cut fade" world.
And what I'm saying is that "high quality" to this market of women are men that they can CONTROL and USE. Now I want to pinpoint that I'm referring to a Relationship/LTR, I'm not referring to just a dating/sex situation.taiyuu_otoko
If you want a "high quality woman" you've got to provide her with what she describes as a "high quality" man. What that is varies from case to case and is dependent on an uncountable number of factors, both conscious and unconscious.
You are a high quality male when you are willing to hand over your balls to her on a silver platter, that makes you a REAL man to this market of women.
That's backwards as hell, but we are living in a culture that is backwards where the GOOD are shamed and the BAD are praised. I'm a Black guy as I mentioned before, what do I get from society for busting my a.ss over the last 8 plus years, doing well in my career, graduating with an MBA, 3 bachelor's degrees, and building up a good financial base? I get called bougie, a sell-out, Uncle Tom, white-washed and Sambo.
What does Ray Ray with 5 kids from 5 different women who doesn't take care of ANY of them, and who doesn't have stable employment, who smokes all day, goes in and out of jail, etc., get? He gets a HERO's welcome everywhere he goes as he's the "authentically" black one.
My point is that from top to bottom, our culture is BACKWARDS, and it's mainly the fault of far left politics. Marrying a chick today or having a kid with a chick today, is a damn financial DEATH sentence.