Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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jamesmyrtle22

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i've been talking to this girl for a while and we were suppose to get together twice but both times got canceled. anyway, the last two times i've seen her (monday & wednesday of this week) the last thing that she said was "i'll call you sometime or text you." how long does a girl usually wait till she calls???
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Phyzzle

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She doesn't. You call her.

But if she cancels once without a very good reason, give up and move on to other victims.

Personally, how many times have you canceled a date with a chick you actually found attractive? (Hint: less than once)

She's not interested, and she's kind of rude for making dates just to wait around and cancel them.

Yay! 500 posts. I'm a Jedi master!
 

jamesmyrtle22

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well the first time we had to cancel she had some family issues that came about. the second time we were suppose to go to a party but the guy whose house the party was at had an emergence come up and had to call it off.
 

Trapper

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wait for a while.. let the girl set it up..she will do it..no worries..
 
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