"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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jamesmyrtle22

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i've been talking to this girl for a while and we were suppose to get together twice but both times got canceled. anyway, the last two times i've seen her (monday & wednesday of this week) the last thing that she said was "i'll call you sometime or text you." how long does a girl usually wait till she calls???
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Phyzzle

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She doesn't. You call her.

But if she cancels once without a very good reason, give up and move on to other victims.

Personally, how many times have you canceled a date with a chick you actually found attractive? (Hint: less than once)

She's not interested, and she's kind of rude for making dates just to wait around and cancel them.

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jamesmyrtle22

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well the first time we had to cancel she had some family issues that came about. the second time we were suppose to go to a party but the guy whose house the party was at had an emergence come up and had to call it off.
 

Trapper

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wait for a while.. let the girl set it up..she will do it..no worries..
 
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