"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Question SydneyPeople: What are some hotspots????

newplaya

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Hi, people i'm looking for some hotspots for easy pickup's, i'm talking a place where is easy to talk with the girl i feel attractive, casual situations are much more easier to meet people where do i go?

What i'm looking for?

- Asian HB 7 - 9.
- Age: 18 - 20. I guess a year younger is OK but she wont be able to have fun with me, but guess good ****?


Those are two main criteria.

Anyone in sydney??
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nightspark

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LOL man go to market city in SYDNEY! fcuk there are so many near my uni (UTS) that it's not funny... which is right next to marketcity/chinatown...

oh and there's no easy pickings... jsut be on the top of your game and it'll follow thru dude!

all the best! :D
 

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DOn;t even bother in Sydney. The city is full of arrogant chicks. It attracts a lot of chicks from interstate or overseas but they become arrogant after 3 weeks of being here.

Best bet is to go to the Rocks and get a chick in her late twenties that is starting to get desparate. Otherwise, go for backpackers or chicks from o/s
 

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Originally posted by seasonedplayer
DOn;t even bother in Sydney. The city is full of arrogant chicks. It attracts a lot of chicks from interstate or overseas but they become arrogant after 3 weeks of being here.

Best bet is to go to the Rocks and get a chick in her late twenties that is starting to get desparate. Otherwise, go for backpackers or chicks from o/s
Wow, bitter are we.
 

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Originally posted by seasonedplayer
DOn;t even bother in Sydney. The city is full of arrogant chicks. It attracts a lot of chicks from interstate or overseas but they become arrogant after 3 weeks of being here.

Best bet is to go to the Rocks and get a chick in her late twenties that is starting to get desparate. Otherwise, go for backpackers or chicks from o/s
too true i'm finding out
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I know MarketCity is a hotspot.

But i was actually looking for specifics. I don't have the confidence to approach chics in the streets yet.


Like can you name bars where there's alot of single Asian girls, and such. Like perhaps education centre's besides english classes of course and such. I would prefer casual situations where i can get to know the girl overtime. Or places where everyone is into their own thing like for example bars.
 

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Originally posted by newplaya
I know MarketCity is a hotspot.

But i was actually looking for specifics. I don't have the confidence to approach chics in the streets yet.


Like can you name bars where there's alot of single Asian girls, and such. Like perhaps education centre's besides english classes of course and such. I would prefer casual situations where i can get to know the girl overtime. Or places where everyone is into their own thing like for example bars.
Walk around the various uni campuses?
 

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What kind of environment are you able to approach in?
 

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take a walk through the usyd campus, it's asian bonanza. you dont need to be a student to take a stroll around the campus.

ive had some success at the establishment bar, but i havnt seen many asians there.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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