"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Question SydneyPeople: What are some hotspots????

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Hi, people i'm looking for some hotspots for easy pickup's, i'm talking a place where is easy to talk with the girl i feel attractive, casual situations are much more easier to meet people where do i go?

What i'm looking for?

- Asian HB 7 - 9.
- Age: 18 - 20. I guess a year younger is OK but she wont be able to have fun with me, but guess good ****?


Those are two main criteria.

Anyone in sydney??
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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LOL man go to market city in SYDNEY! fcuk there are so many near my uni (UTS) that it's not funny... which is right next to marketcity/chinatown...

oh and there's no easy pickings... jsut be on the top of your game and it'll follow thru dude!

all the best! :D
 

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DOn;t even bother in Sydney. The city is full of arrogant chicks. It attracts a lot of chicks from interstate or overseas but they become arrogant after 3 weeks of being here.

Best bet is to go to the Rocks and get a chick in her late twenties that is starting to get desparate. Otherwise, go for backpackers or chicks from o/s
 

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Originally posted by seasonedplayer
DOn;t even bother in Sydney. The city is full of arrogant chicks. It attracts a lot of chicks from interstate or overseas but they become arrogant after 3 weeks of being here.

Best bet is to go to the Rocks and get a chick in her late twenties that is starting to get desparate. Otherwise, go for backpackers or chicks from o/s
Wow, bitter are we.
 

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Originally posted by seasonedplayer
DOn;t even bother in Sydney. The city is full of arrogant chicks. It attracts a lot of chicks from interstate or overseas but they become arrogant after 3 weeks of being here.

Best bet is to go to the Rocks and get a chick in her late twenties that is starting to get desparate. Otherwise, go for backpackers or chicks from o/s
too true i'm finding out
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I know MarketCity is a hotspot.

But i was actually looking for specifics. I don't have the confidence to approach chics in the streets yet.


Like can you name bars where there's alot of single Asian girls, and such. Like perhaps education centre's besides english classes of course and such. I would prefer casual situations where i can get to know the girl overtime. Or places where everyone is into their own thing like for example bars.
 

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Originally posted by newplaya
I know MarketCity is a hotspot.

But i was actually looking for specifics. I don't have the confidence to approach chics in the streets yet.


Like can you name bars where there's alot of single Asian girls, and such. Like perhaps education centre's besides english classes of course and such. I would prefer casual situations where i can get to know the girl overtime. Or places where everyone is into their own thing like for example bars.
Walk around the various uni campuses?
 

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What kind of environment are you able to approach in?
 

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take a walk through the usyd campus, it's asian bonanza. you dont need to be a student to take a stroll around the campus.

ive had some success at the establishment bar, but i havnt seen many asians there.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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