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[godjwood]

alright... i posted something last night about my situation dont know who read it. but i totally ****ed up with this girl. ****ing did everything wrong. and i know it. but she keeps giving me chances cause i know she wants me. so i told her i had to move on cause she wouldnt commit to anything. now of course sincei pushed her away shes ****in hot on my ass again. but ive been semi seeing her for over a year and nothing has happened.

so she keeps shooting me IMs and tells me shes going to stop by. so i told her i was going grocery shopping... thought id push her away. so shes says ok ill stop by on my way back from babysitting.

now my question, should i not be here? keep pushing her away?

or second plan that ive thought up. i think it might work.

she shows up i pretend to grab something and put my hands behind my back and say close your eyes i have a surprisei... then kiss her.

if she kisses back, fine, if she doesnt, ill just say sorry, i just didnt want to regret never doing that.

then just stop talking to her. and obviously shell be thinking about us, and then just make her chase me from there?

please let me know what you think this girl means the world to me and i know what im supposed to do but whenever im around her i do all hte wrong things.

 

[DinoCassanova]

If you keep pushing her away for long enough, she'll just go away eventually. Never to return. There's a fine line between playing a little bit hard to get, or not appearing overly interested, and just appearing not the least bit interested in which case the other party could , would, and should split.

A couple of things: you've been, what did you say, "semi seeing" each other , for over a YEAR?? And "nothing has happened"??? What do you mean by nothing? You've never even kissed her yet? How old are you two?? And no, I would forget the whole putting your hands behind your back thing and making her close her eyes, or whatever all that was - just tell her you want to take it to the next level and kiss her; that other stuff sounds lame. I mean, what is this, 7th grade recess?? Quit trying to make her "chase" you, who's got the d!ck and balls, you or her, just tell her that you want to be with her in a more serious way, and make your move.

 

[MightyMate]

Tell her the truth that You are virigin and dont kno how to act. It may let her take job on her hands.

 

[godjwood]

were 20 in college... she went away for a semester... and she only sees me maybe once every couple weeks we just talk alot. ive discussed taking it ot the next level shes told me no then told me yes keeps changing her mind. thats why i wanted to do the surprise thing cause im fed up and it would be like i was just giving a last shot

 

[godjwood]

hahah im not a virgin azzhole just never been in a relationship