"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Question on something I had taken for granted.

Kourt

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Hey guys,

I've always felt the need to live in my own place if I were to succeed with girls. I feel like if I live with my parents at age 20 most girls will just think I'm a loser when they find out and things will just go downhill from there. Recently I've come to think that this may or may not be true. SO, i'm wondering, does it really make that big of a difference to girls whether you live with your parents or not?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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KarmaSutra

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Get the fvck outta the house and into something that's your own. Be it a fvckin' cardboard duplex it'll still be yours.

But make sure Mom still does your laundry and has dinner ready every night.

:crackup:
 

Kourt

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lol dude yeah, I actually have a place lined up for a buddy of mine and myself to move into, just gotta hope the application goes through

and yeah, my mom does my laundry and makes me dinner while living at their place, thats the nice thing : )
 

Hitman10000

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If you can afford it, then go for it. However, your need to move out should never be "because of girls will think I'm a loser." I moved out because I couldn't stand my father barking, surrounding my room was my other siblings and lousy neighbors. And most importantly, because I could afford to move out. If your rent x 4 ($300 x 4 = $1200 per month) is not equivalent to your monthly salary after taxes and not if you don't have at least Rent x 12 ($300 x 12 = $3600 in bank) Be independent and smart, not stupid.

For instance, I pay $500 for rent (room sharing) , and I make $2500 a month. That's smart.

My female friend pays $600 for rent (room sharing) , but she makes $1300 a month. That's stupid. not only that she has only less than a thousand left in bank. if she gets fired..rut roh. She thinks it's fine of course, since she can bring "her boys or friends" over. Geez, some people are socially needy.
 
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