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Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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Question On Sexual Potency

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So we know that high temperatures on your nuts is bad for your sperm count. Does this mean that placing them in cold water etc for lower temperatures will increase your sperm count? and what if sperm count goes up? does this increase drive?
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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if you wanna put your berries in a bowl of cold water then by all means knock yourself out.
 

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im gonna have to disagree with your scientific analysis. what you said is the same as saying that drinking milk on a hot day makes it curdle in your stomach...a totally erroneous assumption. your body maintains a constant state of homeostasis...that means that your body temperature is regulated to be as constant as possible. also, mammalian ananotomy has developed in a way that is most beneficial to us....since your crotch area is generally the warmest place on your body at any given time, if anything, the warmth acts as a sort of 'incubater" for the sperm to live and thrive.
 

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The Real Deal On Sperm

Hey all,

- ideal development for sperm is a few degrees lower than body temperature

- the muscles of your scrotum will contract or relax depending upon external temperature, moving your testes closer or furthur away from your body in order to keep the testes at the correct constant temperature

- this means no worries for you under usual circumstances

- if you wear tight underwear your testes are held too close to your body and your sperm count will decrease due to high temperature related complications (the sperm will have trouble maturing)

- if you subject your testes to unusually cold temperatures (such as *prolonged* exposure to cold water) the same thing will happen

- it's not a matter of cold is better, but of maintaining the *correct* temperature

- sperm count has nothing to do with sex drive, that job is performed mostly by testosterone

- testosterone IS produced by the testes, so it *could* be possible for testes at the wrong temperature to function less than optimal and reduce testosterone production... but I've never heard of anything like that before (I'm quite certain, if you would like my explanation I'll provide it)

- I think testosterone production is less dependent on temperature than sperm maturation

- HV
 

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this topic is effectively moot. i mean, you have millions of sperm. all it takes is one to do the job. any loss will be inconsequential.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i have heard that hot baths can reduce your sperm count. This is why i ask. Apparently if you want to remain sexually potent and not have any problems in later life, hot baths are not a good idea...
 

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You have enough sperm to impregnate the entire planet several times so what is a hundred million here and there and after all you only need one. I would more worry about them being active and resiliant more than about the numbers. A good diet rich in protein and free of junk tends to increase their potency.
 

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how do you increase your testosterone levels? I reckon my sex drive has dropped a lot over the last couple of years.
 

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Stop wanking (masturbating if that gets sensored)
 

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A way to raise your sperm count in the short term is to heat the testes to and then cool them.
This causes sperm count to spike.

As for sperm count being unimportant that is a myth, sperm count is extremly important, as the female reproductive system is designed so that only the males with the "fittest" reproductive system gain the prize (passing on their genes). a low sperm count makes it almost impossible for enough sperm to reach a point in the fallopian tubes to fertilise the egg (i was informed in a lecture that in a normal male maybe 10 sperm make it) so if your sperm count is one tenth normal = 1 sperm one one hundredth = 0.1 sperm and so on.
Cheers
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

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